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About reveds

Occupation: Pastor, Ebenezer Presbyterian Church, Lennox, SD Education: BS - Christian Education, Sterling College; MDiv. - Princeton Theological Seminary Family: Married, with Four children. Hobbies: Running (will someday run a marathon), Sci-Fi (especially Doctor Who and Sherlock), Theater, and anything else my kids will let me do.

See How They Love One Another

“Beloved, let us love one another…”
1 John 4:7

There is no better testimony of the love we have for God in Jesus Christ than the way in which we show our love for one another. Jesus said to His disciples, A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:34-35).

This love to which we are called as the body of Christ is an uncommon love, to be sure. It is not the kind of thing the world expects or even knows to look for. This love is demonstrated as we willingly forgive one another serious offenses, as we refuse to speak harshly to or about one another, and as we give sacrificially to help one another. This love is demonstrated as we gather regularly to encourage, correct, and pray for one another as we are lead by God’s Word and God’s Spirit. This love is shocking, unnerving, unsettling. Many will be suspicious, certain that there is some catch; this kind of love is too good to be true.

I encountered this love, and the world’s reaction to it just last night. I made the mistake of telling the Deacons of my church as they were helping to move us into our new house that I wanted to remove the trees that surrounded our house. The old pine trees were dying, and obstructed the house, but still didn’t really provide any shade. They needed to go.

Well, last night, 14 church members showed up with chain saws, trailers, tractors, and willing hearts and hands. In 3 hours they removed 13 pine trees.

Here’s some before and after shots.

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As the trees were coming down, the neighbors all came out to see what was happening, and all were glad to see the trees go. I told them all about how kind and gracious the Deacons of my church are, and how loving the congregation has been. To which one neighbor said, “Give them time, that will stop.” Unconvinced that this kind of love and service could be genuine and lasting, the man walked away in disbelief.

Tertullian, the early Church Father (2nd and 3rd cent), once wrote of the Roman culture’s curiosity regarding the Christian community:

“Look,” they say, “how they love one another” (for they themselves hate one another); “and how they are ready to die for each other” (for they themselves are readier to kill each other).”

A culture that sought honor and power above everything else was witnessing the Christian community where brothers and sisters in Christ shared freely of their possessions, provided for the needs of the poor, and were not just willing but eager to stand together in the face of persecution.

This love is rooted and established in the love that we know in Christ.  It is not an effort to win God’s favor. We are not trying to prove our goodness by showing pity on those around us so that God will count us worthy.

No, it is just the opposite.  We recognize that, in our sinfulness and rebellion, we were unlovely and unlovable. But God, who is rich in mercy, who has loved us with a steadfast love, did prove His love for us in that while we were sinners, Christ died for us (Rom 5:8).

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.  Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.  In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him.  In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.  Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. (1 John 4:7–11)

In the love that we share in Jesus Christ, we love one another. We serve one another. We encourage one another. We provide for the needs of one another. We share God’s Word with one another. We count others as more significant than ourselves, and are willing to bear with the failings and shortcomings of one another.

When we love one another, the world will be amazed. They may be suspicious. They may be curious. But they will know we are the disciples of Jesus because of the great love we have for one another.

Grace and peace,

SDG

Guilt is Not A Fruit of the Spirit

With my whole heart I seek you; let me not wander from your commandments!
I have stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.
(Psalm 119:10–11)

“The road to godliness is one of discipline, and discipline doesn’t come naturally to most.”
Bill Hull, Choose the Life

One of the great goals of the Christian life is that we are to be “conformed to the image of God’s Son” (Rom 8:29), that we would “in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ. From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work” (Eph 4:15), to “grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ” 2 Peter 3:18.  This growth in the likeness of Christ is only possible by the inward working power of God’s Holy Spirit, but the Spirit uses and supplies many spiritual graces, helps for our life of faith and maturity in Christ.

These graces, or Spiritual Disciplines, are vast.  We have the opportunity to come together as a congregation for worship and prayer. We have the signs of grace in the sacraments to aid us in our walk with the Lord. We are all literate people, and have the advantage of mass-produced copies of God’s word: every home has multiple copies of the Bible, and now you can have the Scriptures on your Smart-Phone, tablet, and mp3 player. There are endless opportunities for service, prayer, giving.  All of these are gifts given from God as disciplines intended to help you mature in your faith and understanding, as you grow in love for God and one another, and are transformed in the likeness of Christ.

The road to godliness is one of discipline, using the means of grace that have been given for our growth and strength.  We are to daily take up our cross, to die unto ourselves and to live unto Christ. The problem is, like diet and exercise, for most of us, discipline does not come naturally.  We want to be like Christ, and we love the idea of worshipping regularly, of reading the Bible daily, of serving more readily. But when it comes to actually doing it, the demands of work and family come crashing in. I’d go and visit my neighbor, but I don’t know what to say, and my favorite TV show is about to come on, so maybe tomorrow…

We have good intentions when it comes to Spiritual Discipline, but the implementation is difficult.  Add to that the fact that our enemy doesn’t want you to be disciplined and to grow in grace.  Satan would rather have you “spiritually soft” and undisciplined, stewing in the regrets of unfulfilled commitments, struggling with the doubts of despairs of an undisciplined heart and mind.

Friends, the purpose of taking on Spiritual Disciplines like daily reading scripture, prayer, fasting, service, etc, is not to make you feel guilty about the times when you neglect the spiritual disciplines.  The purpose is to make you more like Christ, to lead you away from reliance upon yourself – your own wisdom, strength, and even tenacity – and turn ever more to the perfect wisdom, the perfect strength, the perfect faithfulness of God.

Rest assured, the disciplines are hard work, they take time, and we will all, at one point or another, fail in our efforts to be disciples.  The original 12 disciples often failed in their discipleship. But the point was, they kept following.  When many would be followers of Jesus left Him because of some very difficult teaching, He turned to the 12 and said, “Will you leave me too?” Peter replied, “Where else shall we go to find the words of life?”

If you made a plan to read a chapter of the Bible every day, and then one day wake up and realize it’s been a week since you’ve last read, don’t be overcome by guilt and shame and just give up altogether. Turn to Jesus, admit your lack of discipline, then pick up and read. Seek His grace today. Sit at His feet and learn from His word.

If you want to grow in prayer but struggle to pray, then plead with God would put a passion for prayer in your heart. The desire to pray is a prayer in and of itself. Don’t despair that you cannot go more than two minutes in prayer without your mind wandering. Pray through the wanderings, then come back to prayer in praise.

I will say it again: Guilt is not a fruit of the Spirit. Discouragement is never the product of close communion with Christ.  Do not despair if you are not where you want to be.  Keep putting yourself in the place where growth will occur. Stop dwelling on the things you haven’t done, or you struggle to maintain some self-imposed standard. Rest in the grace of God, trust in His steadfast love, keep running back to the nail-pierced hands of Christ who died for your disbelief and rose for your righteousness.

SDG