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Occupation: Pastor, Ebenezer Presbyterian Church, Lennox, SD Education: BS - Christian Education, Sterling College; MDiv. - Princeton Theological Seminary Family: Married, with Four children. Hobbies: Running (will someday run a marathon), Sci-Fi (especially Doctor Who and Sherlock), Theater, and anything else my kids will let me do.

And the answer is… No

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“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness…”
(2 Corinthians 12:9 ESV) 

 

Not long ago, the family was gathered around the table for supper – my favorite – Tator-Tot Casserole.  We took a moment to pray, thanking God for our family and the food He provided.  When everyone said, “Amen,” my son looked up and said, “We need to pray again?”  “Why,” my wife asked.  To which his response was, “Cause I want jelly-butter instead.”

It took a while to explain that that’s not exactly how prayer worked (actually, it took longer to convince him to eat his supper).  We didn’t want to discourage his young spirit from taking everything to God in prayer.  He needed to know that even though God didn’t change his dinner options, God still listened to his prayer and loved to hear him pray.  Still, he also needed to know that sometimes God answers our prayers with a “No.”

My son doesn’t like to hear “No,” but if we’re honest, neither do any of us.  How many times do we come up with what we think is a great idea, only to be told “no” by those who have greater insight and understanding.  “No, you can’t buy that,” “no, you can’t have this promotion,” “no, you have to stay right here.”  It can be frustrating, disappointing, and discouraging to hear “no.”

Sometimes, we hear “no” and think “not yet,” or “maybe.”  We continue to push forward in the things we want, the plans we’ve made, only to set ourselves up for even greater disappointment.  “I know this is the right thing for me, even though everyone else says it’s not.  Even though they say ‘no,’ I say ‘yes.’”

We do this with God.  We pray that God will guide us as we make our choices.  Then, when the doors seem to shut in our face, when friends and counselors tell us to look elsewhere, we ignore God’s “no” and press forward anyway.

Here’s the simple truth: If God says “no” to your prayers, it’s because He has something better in store for you.  So many times we go to God, asking Him to approve of our choices even though they may not be honoring to God or beneficial to ourselves and others.  We think we’ve thought through all the possibilities, and that God should see our wisdom and say, “I wish I had thought of that.”  Instead, God, who is infinitely wise, powerful, and sovereign, knows what is right and best for His people.  If we go to God in prayer, and the answer to our prayers is a resounding “no,” shouldn’t we listen and obey?

Paul had this experience.  He had been given “a thorn in his flesh, a messenger of Satan,” he calls it, to keep him from being too proud of his ecstatic vision of heaven (2 Cor. 12).  Whether this “messenger of Satan” was a physical injury, hardship and oppression, or just a really cranky and obnoxious dissenter in his church, we will never know.  We do know that Paul pleaded with the Lord three times to have this thorn removed, and every time the Lord’s answer was clearly, “NO!”

Why?  Why wouldn’t the Lord remove this obstacle from Paul so that he could continue in to thrive in his ministry?  Is God the ultimate kill-joy, withholding His power so that His people would suffer?  Surely God could remove this burden from Paul if He desired.  Couldn’t God see how much better life would be for Paul if He would only answer this prayer?

It was precisely for Paul’s ministry, and for his joy in life, that God said “no.”  God’s answer to Paul was this, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”  God could have removed whatever had been causing Paul such pain, but then Paul would never have learned to rely so completely on the all-sufficient grace of God.  Paul would have trusted in his strength, rather than in the power of Christ that rested upon him.  Paul would never have learned to be content in God through “weakness, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities.”  He never would have come to the point of saying, “When I am weak, then I am strong.”

Friends, if God is telling you “no” when you pray, learn to trust that His “no” is gracious and kind, that God has something greater in store for you.  His plans for you are good, not evil, plans for a future and a hope (Jer. 29:11).  Faithfully wait in His “no,” and see how His grace is made sufficient for you, how His power is made perfect in your weakness.

Grace and peace,

SDG

Why I love the Church, in spite of what I was taught at seminary.

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“Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her…”
(Ephesians 5:25 ESV)

“Christ proclaimed the kingdom, what he got was the church.”  This quote comes not from some bitter and burned out pastor.  It is not from some “Free-Believer” or “Emergent-church” mantra meant to pull you away from your local congregation.  No, unfortunately, this is a quote from one of my Church History professors in seminary.  Not only is this unbiblical (see Matthew 16:18), it lowers the esteem of the church. 

While it is true that the church in its visible existence, is a fractured, divided, and human organization, the true church of God – which we confess to be one, holy, and catholic (universal in time and place) – is truly a beautiful thing.  I love the church which God valued so highly that He would send His Son to establish it, the church that Jesus has purchased with his own blood, the church that has been called out of sin and called to proclaim the Gospel to a broken world.

I love the church.  I don’t love a denomination; those, I am learning, I can do without.  I love the church.  I love the congregation that I serve, but my love for the church goes beyond this local expression.  The church I love is that true fellowship of believers that transcends time and space.  I come to church (locally), knowing that we are an imperfect community; but I love the church because in this community I catch a glimpse of what God has intended life to look like in His Son.

Because I am a guy who really likes lists, here’s a list of reasons why I love the church:

  1. Jesus loves the Church – If Jesus loved the church so much that he would give himself up for her, should I not also love his church?  The purpose of the Christian life is to be “like Christ,” to think like Christ, to live like Christ, to love like Christ.  If Christ loved His church so much that he would lay down His life for her, that He might keep the church holy and without blemish, how can I have contempt for His bride?  Jesus died so that he could gather into one the children of God who are scattered abroad (John 11:52).
  2. The Church is the body of Christ – “For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ.  For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body – Jews or Greeks, slaves or free – and all were made to drink of one Spirit” (I Cor 12:12-13).  If you have confessed Jesus Christ as your savior, it is by the power of the Holy Spirit (I Cor 12:3); and if the power of Spirit has brought you to make confession, then you are part of the body of Christ.  As part of the body, all believers have different gifts and abilities, but all are necessary.  The Christian needs another Christian to speak God’s word to him.  The visible expression of that body may seem dysfunctional, but there can be no genuine expression of faith outside the body of Christ. 
    Kevin DeYoung writes in his study on the Heidelberg Catechism, “There is no New Testament evidence of churchless Christians.  New converts in the early church were baptized in Christ and into a body.  Acts tells us the Lord added daily to their number those who were being saved (2:47).  The Lord wasn’t saving random people into individual saving relationships.  He was adding people to the already visible, identifiable body of Christ.”
  3. The Church disciplines me – For some, this may be the reason why they don’t like being part of a local church.  For others, they may have never experience church discipline, because their church leaders lack the courage to admonish sin in the truth and grace of the Lord.  But the church’s discipline is necessary for our walk with the Lord.  I need to be told when I have strayed from Christ into sin; when my foolish pride triumphs over my humble submission to God; I need to be reminded, often of my absolute dependence on the grace.  When a church is faithfully preaching and teaching the Word of God, and when the body is faithfully listening, we will find teaching, reproof, correction, and training in righteousness (II Tim. 3:16).
  4. The Church restores me – If all I received in the church was discipline and correction, either I would learn to completely hate myself because I am a miserable failure, or I would find a different church that maybe took it a little easier on me.  The Church, in addition to exercising discipline, should also be a place of gracious forgiveness and restoration.  The Church is the hospital for the sin-sick soul, the place where healing and mercy reigns.  When sin has been confessed, when wrongs have been exposed, the church is the one place in the world where grace and forgiveness fall like rain.
  5. The Church strengthens me – I have found that by the time Sunday comes around, I need the Church as much as the Church needs me.  Worshiping with other believers, drawing together with brothers and sisters in Christ, listening to and studying the word of God together, invigorates, encourages, and strengthens me.  Bonhoeffer said, “The physical presence of other Christians is a source of incomparable joy and strength to the believer.”

Be sure to thank God today for the Church, the Body and presence of Christ in your life.  Thank God for the Church that you attend, and if you don’t attend, find someplace to call home, so that you can encourage and be encouraged by your brothers and sisters in Christ.

Grace and peace,