True Love

“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God,
and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. 
Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.”
(1 John 4:7-8 ESV)
 

I had the pleasure of sitting in on a Sunday School class at Eastminster Presbyterian Church in Wichita, KS last weekend while visiting my mother.  This was an unusual experience for me, to be in a class and not be teaching it.  It took everything in me not to jump in with something to say, and I humbly confess, I failed.  Still, after my initial “might I add a quick thought,” I was able to tame my tongue and quietly enjoy the class.

There was a question asked during the study, however, that really got my mind turning.  We were studying 1 John 4, one of my favorite passages.  We came to the passage listed above and the question was raised, “is it possible for someone who does not know God to love?”  It was a good question, and I think it set the teacher back for a second.  The response given was something along the lines of: “Well, there are different kinds of love, physical or erotic, philial or brotherly love, and then there is the kind of love that John is talking about, the agape love, self-sacrificing, other seeking love.  No other religion teaches this kind of love.  This kind of love can only come from God.” 

While I agree for the most part with the answer that was given, I think there are some deeper lessons to be learned from John’s teaching on loving as coming from God.

  1. The question that was asked misses the point of John’s letter.  John does not say that those who don’t know God cannot love.  Rather, John is saying those who do not love one another, those who even go so far as to say they hate their brother, in fact do not know God.  If we claim to know God, that is, to know Him as He has been revealed to us in Jesus Christ, then we know that God loves us and would have us love one another.  We cannot have fellowship with God while walking in darkness (1 John 1:5-6), we cannot claim to know him unless we keep His commandments (1 John 2:4-5), we cannot love God unless we love our brother (1 John 4:21).
  2. All love does come from God, and even those who don’t know God in a personal way through Jesus Christ do know, in some way, of God’s love.  While we affirm that God is holy, just, and a whole dictionary of other theological terms regarding the attributes of God, John also teaches us that it is the very nature of God to be loving.  Even God’s wrath and judgment are manifestations of His love for us.  And so, in a general way, all of creation has received the general grace of God’s love.  From the beginning of time, God has been revealing His love for us: God provides the rain and the sun, for the just and the unjust.  To varying degrees we have all known and experienced the love of family and friends who have cared for us through our lives.  We are raised with a love for our nation, a love for our team, a love for our pets.  Nearly every religion teaches love for all peoples (even though the demonstration of that love varies widely in its expression).  Yes, it is possible not to be born of God and still love.  But,
  3. There is a difference between the general love that the world knows and the godly love that is required for our salvation.  Matthew Henry writes that “the love of God is the sum of righteousness.”  To love God wholeheartedly, completely, and perfectly is what it means to be truly righteous before God.  Nothing less is accepted for salvation.  To love God wholeheartedly, completely, and perfectly, however, is impossible for fallen man.  The entirely of the law points to our inability to generate such consistent and unwavering love.  Even when we are loving God the best we can, we fall short of such a high standard.  To love God like this would be impossible were it not for the fact that He first loved us.  God has proven His love for us in that while we were sinners, He gave His son to die for us, to atone for our sins, and to make us alive to His love by the power of the Holy Spirit.  When we receive that love, when we live in the power of that love, when we give that love to one another, then we know that the love of God, yes even God Himself, abides in us.

Let us, then, love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.

Love Covers Sin

Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.”
(I Peter 4:8 ESV)
 

During a conversation with my confirmation class a while ago, I read 1 Peter 4:8, “Love covers a multitude of sins.”  I can’t be sure what the topic was for that night, we were either discussing the love of God for us in Jesus Christ, or perhaps the topic of forgiveness and grace.  That’s when the perfect question was asked, one that made me look at this text anew.  “Isn’t it a bad thing,” one student innocently asked, “to cover up sin?  Isn’t that like hiding it, rather than dealing with it?”

Immediately I knew exactly where she was coming from.  I remember as kids, my brother and I shared a room.  We both had twin beds on opposite sides of the room, and two big shelves that ran the length of a wall filled with toys.  Well, let me rephrase that, the shelves were built to hold our toys.  They never did.  Instead, the toys were scattered across the floor, on the beds, spilling out of the room.

When Grandma came to visit, my brother and I went furiously to work.  Grandma would come and give an inspection of our rooms, making sure the toys were put away, the clothes folded neatly in the drawers, and the furniture dusted (I swear she once brought a clean white glove).  As boys, rather than putting everything where it belong, we’d usually shove all the toys, clothes (dirty and clean), and anything else that was in our rooms under the bed.  Then we’d straighten the top cover of our beds – making them would be too much work – allowing the blanket to touch the floor hiding the mess under the bed.  If you just looked in the room from the doorway, it appeared clean.

But Grandma never just looked in from the door.  The first place she’d look was under the bed.  One by one she’d pull toys and clothes out of their hiding place, while my brother and I begrudgingly put them back on the shelf where they belonged.  We were then lectured on the importance of cleanliness and tidiness.  We played this game just about every time Grandma came. We were boys; we didn’t learn very quickly.

If this is what is meant by “covering sins,” then yes, I can see where this would be a problem.  Hiding a person’s problems, covering them up, sweeping them under the rug as if they never happened, helps no one.  Unconfessed sin, unaddressed sin, un-dealt-with sin will fester and grow, affecting everything you do.  Eventually you will have to deal with the problem, the sin, whatever it might be, or else it will result in death.  To cover sin, either with lies and excuses, or by saying it isn’t a sin at all, will only compound the sin itself.  This isn’t what the scriptures mean.

When the scriptures talk about covering sin, the image is more of bandaging and healing rather than hiding.  When wounded, a bandage is applied, not so much for hiding, but to foster healing.  Ointments are applied, the area is cleaned, the wound is bound so that to prevent further injury and infection; it has been dealt with and covered. 

This is what God’s love does for us in Christ.  God cannot simply overlook our sin.  Every sin is an offence to our Holy God and must be dealt with in righteousness and holiness.  God, in His love for us, sent His Son to atone for our sins, to pay the redemption price for those who are slaves to sin, to bear the burden of our guilt of sin, to offer forgiveness from the offense of sin.  In Christ, our sins have been covered, they have been dealt with, and when we trust in Him for our salvation, the healing will begin.  Love does not tolerate sin.  Love addresses it for what it is, brings healing and restoration, and puts on the way of righteousness.

There is also a sense in which covering the sin brings protection and comfort.  When a wound is new and raw, your nerves are on edge and the pain is severe.  But the wound can also bring shame and sorrow.  A disfiguring scar, the loss of hair from therapy, the imprint of a wedding band no longer worn because of divorce; we want to hide our wounds, we want to soften the blow.

When love covers sin, it protects and defends, it covers the shame with grace and forgiveness.  Love covers sin like the father who ran out to meet the prodigal son; he embraced his son, covered him with the best robe, placed the signet ring on his barren finger, and walked him back through town, covering him and protecting him from the accusations and scorn of the community he disgraced.  Love covers the sins of the beloved.  Love releases from bondage, turns away from sin, covers with righteousness, and shelters from the accusation of consciousness and community.

This is the love that our heavenly Father has for us.  This is the love that Christ demonstrated on the cross.  This is the love that we are called to share with one another.

SDG